Found my boyfriend on dating website
I was sitting at a diner with one of my closest friends, and she presented me with a solution: set up an Ok Cupid account. There were times when I would get frustrated and would delete my account completely.
She said that it wasn't the terrifying mid-1990s AOL chat room that I imagined it to be, and that it was an excellent way, if nothing else, to get the confirmation that there were human males on the planet. Someone really did bring his entire posse of bros along with him on a date.
I haven’t, but I don’t harshly judge people that have because I understand why they would.
To save everyone confusion though, I think ‘taking the profiles down’ should be talked about outright, likely in the exclusivity conversation, and not something that is just assumed.
Did you feel you SHOULD continue to date other people because they were still active?
Have you ever spied on someone to see if they’re still using the site when you think you’re starting to get serious?As when he was with me everything seemed fine, he was also mentioning moving in together and buying a house down the track. He did have issues, as his long-term partner had left him a year a go, and he had just finished the settlement and child support arrangements.